“I do not for a second regret that my heart was able to know someone so extraordinary. I treasure our memories deeply. I marvel and admire the person that you are and always will. I feel honored and privileged to have been desired by the caliber of man that you are. I’m not naive enough …
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It's been quoted that "Writing is the painting of one's voice." I truly believe that. I have been journaling for years, (regrettably, not as consistently as I wish I had). However, the stories and the memories stayed alive in my heart and I feel compelled to share them with you. Life is an awesome journey and WORDS can change the WORLD. Words can change YOU. A little bit about me. Legally born with the name Anastasia--no, not a Russian Princess or Christian Grey's object of affection. ;) I was born in Connecticut and raised in Tennessee, the second of six children. I have four incredible sisters and one amazing brother that are my best friends in this world. I play golf and competed on my high school and college golf teams. I earned a Bachelor's degree at Austin Peay State University in Clarksville, Tennessee. I am a Major in the United States Army Reserve and began a career with Love's in April 2019 after transitioning out of the Active Duty Army in 2019. Additionally, I enjoy instructing Spin classes. I am petrified of spiders. Mexican food is disgusting. Being late raises my blood pressure to an exponential high. Making the following statements: "I'm bored; I've been too busy; or I didn't have time" will earn you the "Staci Eyebrow", ignite a long lecture, and lose your credibility in my eyes. I am generationally displaced, directionally dysfunctional technically challenged. I believe one of the best gifts in the world that you can give someone is a handwritten card or letter in the mail. Stressed spelled backwards is "DESSERTS" and I love spoiling my sweet tooth with nothing other than a cupcake or big bowl of Breyers mint chocolate chip icecream with Hershey's chocolate syrup and chocolate sprinkles. I won't drink a soda without a straw because I don't want the carbonation touching my teeth. I find happiness in the simple pleasures of life--the laughter of a child, climbing into a bed of freshly washed sheets, a bubblebath, lit candles, falling rain, sunrises and sunsets, long walks, bringing a smile to someone's face or receiving an unexpected compliment. I love a good lemondrop martini or glass of wine. I can lose myself in a good book for hours. The Hallmark channel makes my heart smile. Baking at the holidays or trying a new recipe brings me joy. I believe kindness is the easiest language to communicate - even the blind can see it and the deaf can hear it. Every sinner has a future and every saint has a past. Actions speak louder than words. And lastly, love is the greatest gift you can ever give or receive. Older than my years and stronger than my tears, I have made a lot of mistakes and poor choices in my life but no lessons are better learned than those from failure. I have earned more than one degree at the School of Hard Knocks. While we often wish we could go back and change some of these decisions, I do not, as I know I would not be who I am today without these experiences to reflect and draw from. Finally, I believe that the best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. Your gifts, your leadership and your purpose are not about you. A life of significance is about serving those that need your gifts, your leadership and your purpose. Give them and give them freely. My hope and my intention is to serve you with the painting of my voice on this blog--my canvas. :)
“Rare as is true love, true friendship is rarer.” I am discouraged at the way the term “friend” is used so loosely today. With social networking especially, society inclines us to believe that we have hundreds of “friends”. This is a false and inadequate notion though. “Friend”, like the word “love” should be reserved only …
What will the new year bring us? 365 opportunities. The pastor of the church I attend here shared this quote as a part of his last 2018 Bulletin column to inspire us as we approach the dawn of a New Year: “I will seek elegance rather than luxury, refinement rather than fashion. I will seek …
When we recall Christmas past, we usually find that the simplest joys give off the greatest glow of happiness. I don’t recall when the tradition started but one of mine and my siblings’ fondest memories growing up at Christmas was our father reading Twas the Night Before Christmas every Christmas Eve. After Dad left and …
“May you be blessed with the spirit of the season which is peace; the gladness of the season which is hope; and the heart of the season which is love.” Last December, I turned 30 thus inspiring 2018 as my first year of #Adventures30. And adventure I did! I skydived from 13,000 feet, took a …
One of my absolute favorite Christmas songs is Amy Grant’s Grown Up Christmas List. I love this song because the words clearly illustrate the wishes of my heart. I know that it is naïve to believe that world peace can be achieved overnight. However, I do believe that each of us has the capacity within …
If you’ve read previously, you know that 2018 was a year with its challenges. I opted to stay here in Colorado this Christmas for practical reasons following those challenges. This is actually the second time in the six years since I joined the military that I have not been back to Tennessee for the holiday. …
Throughout the course of this suicide investigation I was tasked with last month, I have felt extremely overwhelmed. For a month, I’ve had to speak with the family, friends and co-workers of this deceased Soldier–many over the phone, a few through email correspondence, others in person. I have been ignored by some, snapped at by …
I have recently been reading Dale Carnegie’s book, “How to Win Friends & Influence People”. I highly suggest you add it to your personal library. In one of the first chapters, I came across the following quote. It deeply resonated with me, so much so that I had to find it, order it, frame it, …
What Homelessness Is NOT: A Disease, a Crime, an Invisible Problem. What Homelessness IS: A highly ignored epidemic and marginalized problem that deserves informed education; a serious problem demanding Americans’ attention. My intent is to raise awareness of the nation’s homelessness problem. This is just Part 1 of a series I plan to share. Today …

