I do not yet have biological children of my own. The children who come into my home arrive through foster care, but I have become increasingly uncomfortable with calling them “my foster kids.” I am not ashamed of foster care. In fact, I am proud to serve as a respite and emergency foster care provider. …
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It's been quoted that "Writing is the painting of one's voice." I truly believe that. I have been journaling for years, (regrettably, not as consistently as I wish I had). However, the stories and the memories stayed alive in my heart and I feel compelled to share them with you. Life is an awesome journey and WORDS can change the WORLD. Words can change YOU. A little bit about me. Legally born with the name Anastasia--no, not a Russian Princess or Christian Grey's object of affection. ;) I was born in Connecticut and raised in Tennessee, the second of six children. I have four incredible sisters and one amazing brother that are my best friends in this world. I play golf and competed on my high school and college golf teams. I earned a Bachelor's degree at Austin Peay State University in Clarksville, Tennessee. I am a Major in the United States Army Reserve and began a career with Love's in April 2019 after transitioning out of the Active Duty Army in 2019. Additionally, I enjoy instructing Spin classes. I am petrified of spiders. Mexican food is disgusting. Being late raises my blood pressure to an exponential high. Making the following statements: "I'm bored; I've been too busy; or I didn't have time" will earn you the "Staci Eyebrow", ignite a long lecture, and lose your credibility in my eyes. I am generationally displaced, directionally dysfunctional technically challenged. I believe one of the best gifts in the world that you can give someone is a handwritten card or letter in the mail. Stressed spelled backwards is "DESSERTS" and I love spoiling my sweet tooth with nothing other than a cupcake or big bowl of Breyers mint chocolate chip icecream with Hershey's chocolate syrup and chocolate sprinkles. I won't drink a soda without a straw because I don't want the carbonation touching my teeth. I find happiness in the simple pleasures of life--the laughter of a child, climbing into a bed of freshly washed sheets, a bubblebath, lit candles, falling rain, sunrises and sunsets, long walks, bringing a smile to someone's face or receiving an unexpected compliment. I love a good lemondrop martini or glass of wine. I can lose myself in a good book for hours. The Hallmark channel makes my heart smile. Baking at the holidays or trying a new recipe brings me joy. I believe kindness is the easiest language to communicate - even the blind can see it and the deaf can hear it. Every sinner has a future and every saint has a past. Actions speak louder than words. And lastly, love is the greatest gift you can ever give or receive. Older than my years and stronger than my tears, I have made a lot of mistakes and poor choices in my life but no lessons are better learned than those from failure. I have earned more than one degree at the School of Hard Knocks. While we often wish we could go back and change some of these decisions, I do not, as I know I would not be who I am today without these experiences to reflect and draw from. Finally, I believe that the best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. Your gifts, your leadership and your purpose are not about you. A life of significance is about serving those that need your gifts, your leadership and your purpose. Give them and give them freely. My hope and my intention is to serve you with the painting of my voice on this blog--my canvas. :)
Today I was asked to take in a 16-year-old boy. I couldn’t say yes. I received the email this afternoon while sitting in my office. As I read through his history, I immediately started crying. He is sixteen years old but functions intellectually at approximately the level of an eight-year-old. Much of that is believed …
The Assignment: Purpose: The purpose of this project is to learn about different communication styles and identify your primary style. Overview: Complete the Discover Your Communication Style questionnaire to help you identify your style. Deliver a 5- to 7-minute speech at a club meeting about your communication style and its impact on your professional and/or personal relationships. …
Dynamic Leadership Level 2 Speech #1: The purpose of this project is for the member to identify their primary leadership styles or styles and share some aspect(s) of their primary leadership style or discuss leadership styles in general. “Leadership is Responsibility” When people talk about leadership today, we hear a lot of words like collaboration, …
Happy New Year! If your 2025 looked anything like mine, you may have realized that while it wasn’t the year you expected, it might have been the year you needed. Last year was NOT wrapped in shiny paper or tied neatly with a bow. It came in layers. Some jagged, some soft, ALL meaningful. For …
Over the last few months, I’ve shared simple posts about fostering.Just small glimpses into my life. Recently, I received a message from someone I never would have expected to hear from – a former foster child. He wrote: “Hey, I saw your post about fostering. As a former foster kid, I’m always thankful there are …
The purpose of this project is for the speaker to practice using vocal variety or body language to enhance a speech. Madam Toastmaster, fellow Toastmasters, and honored guests, This past week, someone I knew, someone vibrant, loved, and woven into the fabric of my hometown community, passed away unexpectedly. No warning.No slow decline.No time to …
The purpose of this project is for the speaker to practice using vocal variety or body language to enhance a speech. (Begin softly, standing still, almost like the audience is entering your home for a moment) Them: “Mommy! Mommy! Are you up? Wake up!” Me: “I’m up! I’m up! I promise!” (Not really…) Them: “Can …
Opening: “Why me?” Have you ever asked yourself that question? Maybe you’ve asked it dramatically. Maybe not. It doesn’t mean wallowing in self-pity.It’s a raw and very human question. And we’ve all been there – me too – staring at the aftermath of something I didn’t see coming.Wondering what I missed. How it unraveled. Why …
Good afternoon, fellow Toastmasters. If you had seen my life from the outside a few years ago, you probably would’ve said, “She’s got it all together.” College degree? Check. Two stable careers. Check. Calendar color coded and goals mapped out? Double Check. I was the one who got things done. Who had it all. ON …
